I think most people gauge whther somones a good or bad person by how much theyve talked to or know about that persons life, unless youve done something horrible to them theyl think youre bad if they havent talked to you much or good if you have talked to them much, its sorta like that trope of "if you get to know people youl find nobody is truly evil" thats BS btw its not that that person isint evil its just that you feel emotional about them because you know more of their story